So what makes a man sexy? If an E.T landed on planet earth and took one look at you, would he assess your Mr. Universe qualities, or your kind and loving nature?
If you fancy the good looking babe, the one with the crystal necklace and esoteric grin, you might wonder if you will ever see that light in her eyes burning just for you. You so want her to be yours, to stand by you, to love your faults to accept you. But you are insecure, afraid of not being “good enough”; scared she could walk away if you were not up to scratch in the metaphysical department. After all she is a New Age gal.
On the other hand, if you are an enlightened gay person, you might yearn for wild, deep erotic love! Perhaps you have finally realised that being muscle bound with a sexy walk and great looking face is not enough to pull the dude you deeply yearn for, dream of, write poems about. There has to be something more, something holy. Perhaps, you dream, one day, he will look into your eyes, and you will sense his Spirit entering your very being, making your cells vibrate. He is your hero; he is your perfect man, the one you have looked for all your life. But how can you tell him you love him from your soul? Would he understand, and would your spiritual “take” attract him? Yes, you want him to penetrate you, your spirit, your body, your heart and your soul. But if God is just a name to him, and spiritual matters leave him ice cold, perhaps your higher love would have him reject an opportunity to surrender, to laugh like never before!
The truth is a spiritual man trusts notwithstanding, allowing intimacy. Spiritual, sexy men scorn game playing; they say it how it is. They are fully present, fully conscious in the here and now as they hold a man in their arms. There is a devotional aspect to that kind of loving, it is called “surrender to a higher power” and it means flowing with truth, allowing healing energy to overcome the relationship glitches, and heal fear and mistrust.
Simmering with unmitigated, celestial passion will not be embarrassing to a truly spiritual man, he will touch the stars and be happy with his lot. The fact is a spiritual man is charismatic, and he chooses his lover with his heart. He will not waver in that intent. He will commit, and breathe in synchrony with him.
Why are metaphysical truths becoming so pervasive in our society? Perhaps because they give a guy natural power. A power that he has lost to being the top dog, a striver, a winner, someone afraid to demonstrate what he really feels, in other words a man who tries too hard. A man in touch with his soul however, walks proud, is unafraid of his special yearnings, and admits he believes in his God perception. He stands out, and he lets go.
You might still retort but being sexy and spiritual is really impossible. But being spiritual and sexy means you are brave indeed, unafraid of letting go of childhood insecurities, because you know everything happens for a reason. You do not bury your pain, you let it flow from your heart, and you share it in wild, and profound intimacy. You do not disconnect, or make your lover wait for a phone call, you heal what is challenging between you instead.
Emotion is not to be ashamed of. Truly spiritual folks stand by it. They push nothing away. They choose to live in a state of higher love on a daily basis. They unashamedly call psychics to discuss their issues, dig getting sessions from a spiritual healer, and believe in angels, ghosts and demons, curious about life because they know it is multidimensional, and being multi dimensional is very sexy. Standing up for that fact is what a spiritual man is all about! Indeed, he can only be spiritual as he sees and touches the secrets of life, allowing his lover to enter his consciousness, his body and soul. He cannot help that merging, simply because he is “One with All that Is!”
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