It is a “hands down” we would do anything to learn psychic powers when we are in a romantic mess. Psychic powers help us see into the future, help us understand what another is thinking. So what is the typical romantic “casino” that has us buying a crystal ball? Well it is the uncontrollable love addiction of course.
For example, we met someone gorgeous, we started going out with them, and before we know it we cannot bear to live without them. Not hearing from them for a week makes us a contender for the funny farm. We feel tense in our solar plexus, “have they gone off us?” we shriek, and suddenly we have morphed into a quivering wreck, veering between obsessive texting if we are nice, and bunny boiling if we are not.
It is great to be infatuated by a potential soul mate but it is not great to send them multiple emails asking why they have not been in contact. In fact, such reactions could result in a scene on their doorstep, with us demanding “the world and his wife”, when all they want to do is put their feet up. Such a confrontation is not good, nor is facing him or her down the pub with a list of psychological reasons as to why they lack commitment. If one has been going out with a gorgeous gal or hunk for just a week “telling him how it is” will not get us good points.
Of course we could learn psychic powers and force them to come our way? Well, sorry to disappoint, never trust a psychic who insists they can bring lovers together, they are letting the side down. Nobody can make another person adore an individual who has emailed them a hundred times in a week, and insists they are emotionally stunted because they don’t want to settle down just yet.
So all you love addicts out there, take our advice, if you want him or her to dig you, be your own person. Create the odd healthy distance; do not give too much away in one fell swoop. Leave a little mystery, set them on edge, perhaps disappear for a few days and make them wait for your call. When you catch yourself getting panicky because they have not contacted you, run around the park, take up knitting, visit a senior citizen, and make jam, in other words force yourself to keep cool, on the other hand you could learn psychic powers and if your tarot cards indicate that you are morphing into the “date people love to hate”, don’t say we didn’t warn you!
Another alternative is ringing up a psychic. Psychics are used to folks calling to ask when the boy or girlfriend will show up. They can tell by the energy a client emits how far down the obsessive road they have come. Yet even so, the psychic will be honest. They will do their best to tell us that the man will not call; the girl will not come around.
An option could be to say that the psychic is mad, and does not understand our situation at all. The other is to believe the psychic and start to look within. Perhaps we are insecure due to childhood issues; perhaps somebody we adored let us down. Only we can understand why we are a slave to our insecurities. However, if we refuse to accept that romantic mishaps are written in stone, the result could be a really great relationship where trust and affection rule the roost.
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